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When David had gone a short distance beyond
the summit, there was Ziba, the steward of Mephibosheth, waiting to meet him.
He had a string of donkeys saddled and loaded with two hundred loaves of bread,
a hundred cakes of raisins, a hundred cakes of figs, and a skin of wine.
The king asked Ziba, "Why have you brought these?"
Ziba answered, "The donkeys are for the king's household to ride on, the bread and fruit are for the men to eat, and the wine is to refresh those who become exhausted in the desert."
The king then asked, "Where is your master's grandson?"
Ziba said to him, "He is staying in Jerusalem because he thinks, 'Today the house of Israel will give me back my grandfather's kingdom.'"
Then the king said to Ziba, "All that belonged to Mephibosheth is now yours."
"I humbly bow," Ziba said. "May I find favor in your eyes, my lord the king."
2 Samuel 16:1-4
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Mephibosheth, Saul's grandson, also went down to meet the king. He had not taken care of his feet or trimmed his mustache or washed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned safely. When he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, the king asked him, "Why didn't you go with me, Mephibosheth?"
He said, "My lord the king, since I your servant am lame, I said, 'I will have my donkey saddled and will ride on it so I can go with the king.' But Ziba, my servant, betrayed me. And he has slandered your servant to my lord the king. My lord the king is like an angel of God; so do whatever pleases you. All my grandfather's descendants deserved nothing but death from my lord the king but you gave your servant a place among those who eat at your table. So what right do I have to make any more appeals to the king?"
The king said to him, "Why say more? I order you and Ziba to divide the fields."
Mephibosheth said to the king, "Let him take everything now that my lord the king has arrived home safely."
2 Samuel 19:24-30
This ends our reading from God's holy word. Thanks be to God.
Not long after David had encountered Hushai the Arkite at the summit of the Mount of Olives, dispatching him to Jerusalem to serve as a spy against Absalom, we see in 2 Samuel, chapter 16 where David came upon Ziba, the man he had appointed as “steward of Mephibosheth”. You’ll recall that Mephibosheth was Saul’s crippled grandson who David had taken into his household and treated like family.
Well, Ziba came to David with gifts…“a string of donkeys saddled and loaded with two hundred loaves of bread, a hundred cakes of raisins, a hundred cakes of figs, and a skin of wine”. Surprised to see him, David asked him why he had come to which Ziba replied:
“The donkeys are for the king's household to ride on, the bread and fruit are for the men to eat, and the wine is to refresh those who become exhausted in the desert."
On the surface, Ziba’s actions seemed noble enough and yet we get a sense that David isn’t quite convinced that his motives were true. After all, he had been betrayed enough by others up to this point to perceive deception when it might be happening. And so we read where David inquired about the whereabouts of Mephibosheth and Ziba tells him that he had decided to remain in Jerusalem, adding that Mephibosheth was thinking that “the house of Israel” was going to be given back to him. The assertion here was that Mephibosheth was also seeking to undermine David so to get back his “grandfather's kingdom.”
Well, we see where David was quick to judgment, assuming Ziba was telling the truth and once again feeling slighted by someone he had treated well, he decides to give Ziba everything that belonged to Mephibosheth. This led Ziba to say:
“May I find favor in your eyes, my lord the king."
Here, we find that Ziba’s dishonest words and actions led to his own gain and Mephibosheth’s loss, even though he (Mephibosheth) wasn’t given a chance to tell his side of the story. David’s crucial decision was solely based on Ziba’s side of things and as we see moving forward into chapter 19, he made a critical error in not getting the full account of what happened.
For as we fast forward ahead, we see where David eventually returned to Jerusalem after Absalom’s plot went awry and as he entered the city, he encountered Mephibosheth who was finally able to tell his side of everything, leading David to discover that he had been deceived by Ziba.
The scriptures tell us that when “Mephibosheth…went down to meet” David, Israel’s king immediately noticed how disheveled he looked. We read where Mephibosheth “had not taken care of his feet or trimmed his mustache or washed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned safely” This had to strike David as being highly unusual for someone who was scheming to undermine him. Mephibosheth’s appearance showed the depth of his sorrow and concern for David and the people of Jerusalem as they were forced to flee a conniving Absalom while he remained behind due to his disability.
Well, noting the appearance, David next asked Mephibosheth why he didn’t go along with him and he replied:
"My lord the king, since I your servant am lame, I said, 'I will have my donkey saddled and will ride on it so I can go with the king.' But Ziba my servant betrayed me. And he has slandered your servant to my lord the king. My lord the king is like an angel of God; so do whatever pleases you. All my grandfather's descendants deserved nothing but death from my lord the king but you gave your servant a place among those who eat at your table. So what right do I have to make any more appeals to the king?"
We should note several key points here…
First, Mephibosheth was crippled. David knew this well because it was one of the main factors he considered when deciding to take care of him, assigning Ziba as his steward.
Second, David learns that Ziba betrayed and slandered Mephibosheth, tearing him down to try and build himself up. I’m sure David had to have flashbacks to the donkeys that Ziba had brought to him while he was in exile from Jerusalem and figured one of those donkeys probably belonged to Mephibosheth. When all was know, David could clearly see how he had once again been tricked by someone he had trusted.
Third, we see Mephibosheth show his respect and admiration of David, comparing him to “an angel of God”. He didn’t expect anything from David but rather submitted himself to whatever David decided to do about the matter.
Finally, we see Mephibosheth displaying absolute humility as he give thanks for David, confessing that his “grandfather's descendants deserved nothing but death” and yet David had shown him (Mephibosheth) mercy, giving him a “place among those who eat at (his) table”. And so already feeling blessed, we see Mephibosheth admitting that he had no right to ask for anything else.
Now…imagine how David must have felt at this point. He had fully believed Ziba without getting Mephibosheth’s side of things…and now that he really knew what happened, he found himself in a quandary…one that would have been avoided if he had not rushed so quickly into judgment.
And so David was forced to retract his earlier decision and ordered that Ziba and Mephibosheth divide the fields and it’s at that point we see Mephibosheth show who truly had integrity as he didn’t complain about surrendering half of his fields to Ziba. He was happy and satisfied enough that David and the others has returned safely and this was more important to him than any material gain.
The Word of God is sending important instruction for us today because I am sure that we’ve all been guilty of jumping to conclusions without getting all the facts as David did in today’s scripture passages.
As I was meditating on this scripture before writing, I couldn’t help but think of a story I heard of while taking a college sociology class on childhood behavior. Specifically, we were studying about how people can be triggered to act in certain ways and the importance of identifying triggers in order to effectively deal with the behavior itself.
The story itself was simple enough.
A mother was shopping at the store and had two young children, a 4 year old boy and a 3 year old girl. While the mother was preoccupied browsing a clothing rack, the kids were doing what kids love to do…playing. It was in the midst of their playing that the little girl pinched her brother hard on his arm and in response, the boy hit the girl causing her to cry. When the mother turned and saw the situation…her daughter crying and accusing the son of hitting her…she immediately paddled the boy, never taking time to find out that the girl had actually started it all by hurting him with the pinch.
Of course, the idea here was to illustrate how the boy’s hitting behavior was triggered by his sister’s initial pinch…thus take away the pinch and the retaliatory hit wouldn’t have happened.
There was also another lesson to learn from this story which was grounded in the mother assuming she understood what happened when she didn’t. This led to a decision that wasn’t based on what truly took place.
You know, the same thing will happen to us if we don’t carefully consider all the facts in a matter before passing judgment, especially when we deal with a matter where there are two sides involved…something that David and the mother in the illustration failed to do.
As we do this, there is one more vital thing we need to do which can ensure we always do the right thing.
We need to turn to the Lord.
In David’s case, had he only turned to God regarding Ziba’s story, it would have been exposed as a ruse, preventing the king from making the wrong call.
In the illustration, had the woman turned to the Lord in the store ever so briefly, first asking Him to help her sort out what had happened, He would have helped her learn more about what really happened so she could respond appropriately.
Today, He’s with us all the same, ever ready to keep us from being betrayed or deceived by someone if we simply just turn to Him in faith and trust. For when we do, He will always take what is in the darkness and bring it to light…not just some of the time but all of the time...helping us see the full story as only He can.
Amen.
In Christ,
Mark
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